Pastors & Stress

Among the teachings in his first letter to the church at Corinth, the apostle Paul gave what some Bible translations subtitle, “Concerns for Married Life.” Included in the passage in chapter seven, Paul speaks to pastors…or would-be pastors, with an admonition summarized here by the late Eugene Peterson in his paraphrase, “The Message.”

“Because of the current pressures on us from all sides, I think it would probably be best to stay just as you are. Are you married? Stay married. Are you unmarried? Don’t get married. But there’s certainly no sin in getting married, whether you’re a virgin or not. All I am saying is that when you marry, you take on additional stress in an already stressful time, and I want to spare you if possible.”
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Peterson and Paul’s perspective is the backdrop for this sequence of audio and written reflections based on the book, “Who Prays for the Pastor?” by Fredrick Ezeji-Okoye.

Ezeji-Okoye is founder of the Men of Faith Network, a pastor's support ministry that serves as a networking and fellowship connection for clergy. Ezeji-Okoye’s book goes into depth about the pressures pastors (and other ministry leaders) encounter from their work, their ministries, their families, themselves.  More than recount them, he offers suggestions in overcoming them.

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This essay is one in a series of devotionals on coping with stress in ministry, and is based on the book, "Who Prays for the Pastor?" written by Bro. Fredrick Ezeji-Okoye.  The accompanying discussion guide was written by Michael Edgar Myers, who also narrated the audiobook and 1-minute devotional excerpts. If you have any difficulties accessing the material, please e-mail mem@kit-ministries.com.  Thank you. ​

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It was KIT Ministries' pleasure to provide the narration by Michael Edgar Myers for the audiobook companion to this narrative.  Michael narrated the book as directed and produced by Joe Wright of JoRon 2000 Audio Book Artists.

We have edited four segments into one-minute reflections and added our own questions and reflections for discussion points between pastors and their families.

• Family Priorities
• Lost Commitment
• Self-Reflection
• Peace At Home

These brief devotions will be published one-by-one in subsequent days at no cost.  As they are published, take time to ponder the preview thought questions, listen to the narrative from the book, then reflect and discuss the follow-up questions, action points and prayer.

Author Fredrick Ezeji-Okoye

Author Eugene Peterson

​As a prelude to these essays, you may learn more about the pressures of which Paul and Ezeji-Okoye speak, review the following resources:

• Five Bible Translations of Paul’s Concerns for Married Life
• 75 Percent of Pastors Would Quit
• Meet Fredrick Ezeji-Okoye
• Four-minute audio sample on Soundcloud

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Also consider visiting Amazon to purchase “Who Prays for the Pastor?”  in print, downloadable audio, or Kindle rental.
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However, more than looking at the data and testimonies, take to heart the principle of the book and devotionals and pray for your pastor.  This would be an on-going gift growing out of Pastor Appreciation Month.

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